Cangkareng

hmm... i just got back from jakarta.. reported in the morning and came back in the afternoon.. so in time to celebrate the second day of hari raya..

anyway, had a nice day yesterday.. started off quite late after slacking at home watching tv.. my close friends, firdaus (wily) and andrew (volvic) came down at abt 5..

after that, a stream of guests kept coming till after midnight..

anyway, slacked off at home with wily and volvic.. and the three of us.. 3 single, unattached bachelors.. having ZERO problems in relationships and shitz like that..

as much as girls would think that there are no nice men around.. and the perfect guy is either taken or gay.. isnt that what they say? we think that therez no sane women around. except for all our mothers.. yes.. including urs.. whoever u are.. mothers are ok.. but a lot of women are psychotic, possessive, and they just love to intrude..

during the flight, had a conversation with the crew.. since we didnt have much things to do as it was almost an empty flight..

to the women whoz reading this 2 cents crap of mine..

guys dont like to be nagged at. we dont like to be controlled.. we dont like our lives to be intruded. unless we are married then we have no choice but to attempt a happy home.. if itz just a relationship, DONT TRY.

i have met married friends of mine.. and if they are women.. once they find out that i am not married.. they'll go.. zul.. u should get married.. itz nice having a family.. blablablayadayadayada..

and the guys.. once they know that i am not married.. they'll go.. brader.. u are smart xia.. if i know.. i would stay single..

dammit.. itz not like it had happened once or twice.. but at LOT of my married male friends have some regrets getting married.. and if u contrast the pros to the cons.. the cons outweighs it all..

i have a friend of my age, married for 6 yrz, chindian fella with a chinese wife.. and hated his marriage like hell.. no kids, a wife whoz getting less and less of being a friend as the marriage pass.. and he is less of a friend to her as well.. and to consider the situation.. i think i'm ahead in some ways..

i dont have marriage depressions.

i dont get lonely as i have a lot of things to do. if one day, i grow old and wither alone, so will be all those who are married and divorced.. they'll be at the next bed at the old folks home with me.. with their depression along with them..

and *IF* i decide in later years (or months.. depending on what the situation in sydney brings.. ) to settle down.. i think i have the upperhand, of being emotionally stable.. like the rest of my friends of my age.. having a stable career.. and on top of it all, i'm not married and divorced like them..

those who rushed into marriages in the early age of 20somethings, good luck to u..

we live in a world unlike our parents'. they had lesser influence of their days in marriage to stray..

if u had just started living ur life and u wanna cramp someone else within it.. one day it will just break apart coz u know not what life brings..

if u had matured correctly, i think that whatever the future holds will more or less go with the trend of life that u had learnt thru the years..

and for those who thinks that i only like the young girlfriends.. lemme just say.. i love pretty faces and i hate it when women starts to talk abt marriage.. so i stick with those who does not give me pressure to tie myself up in matrimony..

but if i do find the need to settle down, i'll go for a matured woman. i dont like headaches.

itz hard to say goodbye to bachelorhood when u had been loving it so much.. so i guess i'll remain this way...

will be away for 7 days from tomorrow morning.. to seoul and san francisco.. and i'm gonna be having my clam chowder at the fisherman's wharf..